What follows is part 1 in a series of 3 articles. Part 2 will focus on OCD in adults, with part 3 offering an introduction to olfactory reference disorder (ORD), a lesser known but related condition.听
Obsessive compulsive disorder (OCD) is not about a few habits, fears or quirks. Some young children go through phases of 鈥減articularness,鈥 such as preferring certain colors of clothing or preferring one parent at bedtime, says Dr. Lauren Webb, a psychologist and Assistant Professor of Psychology in the Department of Clinical Psychiatry at 91探花.
Parents may express concern about potential early signs of OCD when their children want something done in a particular way or express certain preferences, such as rolling their socks perfectly. While this may indeed be an early symptom of the disorder, it may also just be normal little kid behavior鈥攁 way of 鈥渟tanding their ground and learning how to set their own boundaries,鈥 she says.
So, what exactly is OCD? Read on for answers to your FAQs about the nature, causes, symptoms and treatment options for a disorder that can be distressing for all concerned but is highly treatable.听
To unpack OCD, let鈥檚 start by defining the two main parts of the equation.听
Obsessions are 鈥渋ntrusive thoughts, images, urges or feelings that come up again and again,鈥 Dr. Webb says, 鈥渨hile compulsions are things kids do or think to find relief from these obsessions. The 鈥榙isorder鈥 part comes in when these obsessions and compulsions interfere with their lives and cause significant distress.鈥
OCD can take many forms, she says. In pop culture, it is often portrayed as a fear of germs, but the disorder is far more complex than that.
鈥淵ou might see kids having this real fear of someone harming them, or harm coming to the people they love or care about. You might see kids getting stuck on religion or some type of moral scrupulosity. You might see them having a lot of health concerns that go beyond just germs. It can range so much,鈥 she says.
A perfect storm of factors can come together to cause the disorder, including:
鈥淲e see two peaks of onset,鈥 she says. 鈥淭he first peak comes between the ages of 8 and 12. The second comes during late adolescence, usually in the person鈥檚 late teens or early 20s.鈥
The gold standard treatment is exposure and response prevention (ERP), which falls under the umbrella of cognitive behavioral therapy (CBT).
Here鈥檚 how it works. Children learn to face their fears in a slow, gradual way (i.e., the exposure part of ERP) while delaying or not engaging in the compulsions (i.e., the response prevention part of ERP) that brought some temporary measure of relief in the past. For those with moderate to severe OCD, the best approach is to combine ERP with medication鈥攖ypically an SSRI (selective serotonin reuptake inhibitor).
鈥淵ou don鈥檛 have to wait for things to get really bad,鈥 Dr. Webb says. 鈥淚f you suspect that something may be going awry with your child, you can always come in for an evaluation.鈥
OCD really does improve with treatment, she says. 鈥淚 see many children and teenagers heal from OCD. You are not destined to live your life with it.鈥澨
Good treatment always includes a discussion of relapse prevention strategies. It鈥檚 about figuring out and identifying any signs that OCD might be flaring up again. That way, 鈥測ou never have to be in a place where OCD is as bad as it was before you started receiving treatment for it. We can look for the warning signs, and you can come in for 鈥榖ooster鈥 sessions, if needed.鈥
OCD is unique, Dr. Webb explains, because it tends to suck everyone in. 鈥淚t鈥檚 painful for the person who鈥檚 directly affected by it, but it鈥檚 also incredibly painful for parents, siblings, the extended family and even for teachers. There can be a lot of frustration.
鈥淭here can also be a lot of accommodation of symptoms,鈥 she continues. 鈥淎 parent may ask, 鈥楳y child is in so much pain. How can I not provide them with a lot of hand sanitizer, for example?鈥 But ultimately, to help someone with OCD, we have to take a hard line and try not to accommodate it.鈥
A great way to start taking it down a peg or two is to externalize OCD, as if it were another person in the room. For little kids and also older ones, 鈥渨e鈥檒l have them give their OCD an actual name鈥擝ob, for example! Families can say, 鈥榠t sounds like Bob is being a bully right now. How can we turn the volume down on Bob? How can we fight Bob together?鈥 That approach can also ease parents鈥 frustration and understand that it isn鈥檛 their child wanting to behave in this way; it鈥檚 OCD that鈥檚 bullying them into doing it.鈥
At 91探花, Dr. Webb works in the . 鈥淲e offer private pay options, but we also have an insurance-based track.鈥
POCAT offers OCD and anxiety treatment for children, teens and young adults. Their program offerings include regular outpatient therapy, an Intensive Treatment Program (ITP), and an insurance-based OCD Track on the WCM/NYP Adolescent Partial Hospitalization Program.听听
Try to gradually reduce accommodating your child鈥檚 OCD. That鈥檚 what 鈥渆xposure therapy鈥 is all about. If you can cheerlead your child into pushing back against what their OCD is telling them to do, that鈥檚 a great place to start.
To learn more, tune into our Kids Health Cast podcast episode on Understanding OCD in Children.
Make an appointment for a consultation with a pediatric OCD specialist at 91探花 .